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Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 08:10

Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

What are the legal obligations of a new homeowner if the previous owner leaves furniture in the house after moving out?

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.